Being in a relationship means you need to be brave...

Being in a relationship today, means being big enough and honest enough to realize that who ever you are with, will have faults, and you will have to accept those faults. And in return, that person will have to accept that you have faults too. 

Possibly the most difficult of all, you are going to have to look at your self honestly, admit to your faults and then work on them and compromise so that you can be someone that the person you love can live with… 

As difficult and hard and tiresome as this sounds, don’t you think that’s the point, to find our humanity through love, to discover who we really are through the mirror provided by the ones we love? And if we take note and listen we are given the opportunity to become the best possible version of who we can be, and them the best possible version of who they can be. 

And don’t get me wrong, I’m not saying get into a relationship with someone who wants to change everything about you, or someone who compromises your value and what you truly want and deserve. 

But often a true soul mate will reveal the things about you, you least want to deal with, but the things that need to heal and grow in order for you to reach your full potential. 

AKA Mr. & Mrs. Smith

By choosing (and I say choosing very specifically because it is a choice) to share our lives by truly loving another human being and embracing them faults and all and being ourselves embraced, it is the most difficult, challenging, selfish and selfless thing we can do, you really need to be brave and to want it because to be honest it's not always floating hearts and butterflies. 

Today many people chose to travel solo, it's much simpler and less complicated, not nearly as scary and of course you can do an enormous amount of self growth and healing on your own... and yet for me, a life without love, is a life not lived at all...

So isn’t it worth it?

Looking back to when I joined 2oceansvibe radio

Looking back to when I joined 2oceansvibe radio

Ok so as most of you now know, I started on 2oceansvibe radio Station with DJSox on his show "Sox and the City" every friday afternoon, from the word go I absolutely loved it!  

How did this come to be you might be asking well, 

lets do a quick summery overview to get you up to speed...

At that time, my friend, beautiful and brilliant friend Bailey Schneider had recently joined "2 Oceans Vibe" she came to stay with me in cape town for a week so that she could meet Richard Hardiman 

and to check out the Cape Town Branch. I met her and Richard at Loading Bay and then took Bailey back into Studio, where I had just been, to introduce her to my good friend Sox, we 

all ended up chatting and having a great time, girls VS Boys!

Sox, Me, Bailey & Yaron

In fact we had soooooo much fun that our pop in visit lasted almost the entire show....

Sox told me that his partner in crime Yaron the hairy Jew was leaving him alone for 2 months ...

and invited me to join him as a stand in, I thought this was a great idea, 

I mean I love a good chin wag and a challenge, this is right up my ally...

So before I knew it... I was Sox's stand in partner in crime

Sox liked to soulfully "sing" into the mike during songs 

(well he called it singing - but truthfully it sounded more like a drowning cat 

having its intestines removed by jagged tweezers) 

Kidding Soxie, you not that bad (not kidding between you and me he is) 

You Good Sox, you've got a great voice  (not)

And I found a guy... aaahhhh Charles, he was so affectionate and loving... 

literally couldn't keep his paws off me... Grrrr!

And that my dear friends is how I discovered my love and passion for radio, so I'd like to thank Sox and 2oceansvibe media, so many awesome memories were made possible because of you!

5 Photograph's I wish I'd been in ... they tell a story

Confidence - letting life take you out of your comfort zone

Living a true rock'n'roll lifestyle, she's been partying for days, lost her shirt and couldn't care because who needs a shirt when you look this HOT!)

Because it's just so utterly romantic ...

Because I love slightly off the wall ...

Because I wish I could still move like this ...

Because she is the epitome of classically sexy and oh so comfortable with every one of her curves ...

Just a little bit of day dreaming, which photo's would you like to be in?

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